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Childhood Hero

 Do you remember having to write about your 'hero' in school?  I don't remember a specific instance, but I know it happened.  Or you had to tell someone your hero.  Did you have one?  Like an easy and truthful answer to that question?


I absolutely did not.


Nope.  Not a soul.  I maybe said some shallow celebrity so I could answer and move along.  Whoever I said, it wasn't the truth.


I do remember that Michael Jordan was a popular choice for the boys.  The girls?  I guess an immediately female family member?  A teacher?  


There was nobody that existed in my realm that I wanted to be like at all.  If I couldn't find fault with someone, my mother definitely could.  Oh no, my mother was not and is not my hero.  


I do know that nobody is perfect but there should be someone kind of close to it.  Right?  At least someone that is enough?

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